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“I guess I’m just the bad guy now, huh?” That’s not regret. That’s guilt being weaponized. 😶‍🌫️ Watch closely when someone hurts you and suddenly flips it to make themselves the victim. “You’re right, I’m the worst. I mess everything up. I don’t even know why you stay.” “So I’m the villain now? After everything I’ve done for you?” “Fine, blame me like everyone else does.” 🧠 The psychology behind it:This is called guilt-tripping as deflection, a manipulative defense mechanism used to avoid tru