If you’ve never been overweight, you don’t understand how hard it actually is. People tell us to try harder. Or “just eat less.” Do they think we don’t try hard? Do they really think if eating less was easy for us we wouldn’t just fucking do it? The problem is when you’re overweight…especially if you’ve been overweight most of your life… You see everything through the lens of your weight. You don’t just eat food and enjoy it. You worry if it’s the right thing. How many calories are in it. What o